Some women can kill each other over a man – Iris Kaingu
Iris Kaingu at a beach in Dubai
Iris Kaingu daughter to ex-Minister Michael Kaingu who became famous after her sex video leaked to the public says she has come to know that women can kill each over a man.
Iris was on October 23, 2012 convicted by the Lusaka Magistrate Court on one count of making obscene material likely to corrupt morals.
It was alleged that on dates unknown but between December 1, 2010 and November 23, 2011 in Lusaka, was jointly and whilst acting together with another unknown person, Iris did make obscene cinematography films that were likely to corrupt morals.
Iris Kaingu being wisked away after she was released by court
In his judgement, Magistrate Mwiinga stated that after having watched the sex video himself, there is proof beyond reasonable doubt that the video was likely to corrupt morals of individuals that may get their hands on it.
Magistrate Mwiinga further stated that it was established that the duo where aware of the laptop webcam recording the entire scene.
But this week Iris stated that women need to realise that there is no need for them to kill each when they have a clash over a man.
She says:
I have gotten to know now that some women will kill each other over a man and he will move on, step right over them like a puddle of mucky water and not even look back. He will see their death as a passport to getting a brand new girl.
1.Drawing from experience, if your man (married or otherwise- you feel you have a claim to him) decides he wants or likes another woman, the task is to you to deal with your man! Speaking on behalf of many a woman, We are almost always just innocently walking by and your man likes what he sees. This disgusting tendency of women blaming other women for their husbands/boyfriend’s indiscretions isn’t right at all.
TAKE IT UP WITH YOUR MAN!!! I possibly don’t even know you.
2. Some women are just that hard working that they can take themselves on holiday, others are just that hot/pretty/sexy/stunning that men (your man) want to take them on holiday! Why he doesn’t want to take you??? We will never know.
AND NO! WE WON EXPOSE THE *SUPPOSEDLY OLD MAN WE’RE ON VACATION WITH*.
ITS NON OF YOUR BUSINESS!!!
3. Women and Men must be allowed to wear anything they are comfortable in- it breaks my heart that many a dozen women especially in zambia perpetuate “men’s” ideas as to what women should wear.
In my opinion the very men that talk about revealing outfits are the very ones that love to see us in them! It’s not what one wears that determines their self worth. I honestly think that the are so many injustices in this world that to focus on ones length of skirt is just utterly sad and you need to fix your perverted eye onto the bigger picture- confidence, self worth, love, peace, your own business etc.
4. Many need to practice the art of – MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. If you can’t make a list of how ones issue affects you, you should not allow yourself to want to give your opinion on their business. It’s only polite to back off.
It’s so nasty to me that some ugly people even coined a term “BRING THEM DOWN SYNDROME” who comes up with things like that????.
People need to practice *ubuntu* your neighbours problems are yours too their joys in the same way. Putting-out someone else’s shine/light doesn’t make yours shine any brighter!! Tiyeni ti gwiri zane ti sebenze pamozi!!! – IK